Posted by DaddyValen on June 15, 2005 at 12:27 [62.254.0.55]
In Reply to: Re: The 25 Stupidest Things Men Say... posted by tisha on June 10, 2005 at 12:54
Perhaps this is off topic but in the five or so years i`ve been active on and off in the Adult baby/little girl communities on the internet I`ve had plenty of abuse from some of the women i`ve met. I can say with complete certainty that i`ve NEVER used any of the lines in your list of 25 stupidest things, and I have met some wonderful fun people (unfortunatley all in America!) Many girls attitudes have been if you messaged me/tried to say hello to me you must automatically be a pervert/jerk/asshole etc, and if what I wanted didn`t fit in exactly with what they wanted I was a pervert/jerk/asshole/poopy head (delete as applicable) One incident I was even accused of being a Pedophile by a Adult little girl, now there`s someone with issues, you want to pretend your a child but you think anyone who enjoys that sort of thing is sick...
Who knows maybe I`ve done something wrong I always try my best to be polite etc, it usually works for me in day to day life. I`m not saying that the kind of guy that says things on your list doesn`t exist, and maybe as a girl you get twice as much flack as I do as a man, but despite what you might say to your girlfriends men are not all the same any more than women are. While I have not been as active on this community as others I believe it to be one of the most fun places I`ve come across so far, and the way to keep it that way is to moderate posts from EVERYONE so that the shy and the insecure girls AND DADDIES can come and chat, I mean what was the post a while back "Paranoia is so unnatractive" laying into Daddies who wouldn`t post their personal details. Hold on a second, why should I be any more forthcomming with private information than the girls on the board. While I am not ashamed of who I am, I have no intention of making my private life common knowledge, but thats just common sense.
As for the guys who post "looking for a little girl" posts well I can`t blame a guy for trying. I posted one then respectfully left it at that, which I think is pretty good netticate. I`m through being lonely personally and I just get on and enjoy my life as a bachelor, but I understand that guys can get very lonely as I`ve been there myself after break-ups etc.
Anyway i`m starting to rant, all I wanted to say really was I don`t think men are the problem on the board, a bad attitude is the only problem, and thats not exclusive to men.
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