Posted by Leigh on June 14, 2005 at 00:28 [69.110.17.37]
In Reply to: Re: A shy girl... posted by tisha on June 13, 2005 at 14:07
Tisha I knew what you meant, and you don't have to worry about me pointing any fingers. :) Right now I think you and I are really the only two LG's posting anymore. I still stand behind my conviction that if the guys on this board would hang back a bit then more girls would come forward without feeling threatened. I don't care who disagrees with me on this either.
Even the daddies that have been posting since the board first opened have noticed a severe change in atmosphere. When people start posting about missing the old sisterhood, one has to wonder about the current state of the board.
I've been here long enough to watch my friends all leave because they feel run off by the guys. Something has GOT to be done about girls posting and feeling as though they are being scrutinized. I don't know what the solution is. I do not think that it is fair to expect all shy girls will suddenly become assertive the second they come here.
Do you have any suggestions Tisha?
Just looking for a solution in a complex situation.