Posted by L.E. on May 28, 2005 at 14:04 [82.96.100.100]
In Reply to: What's your thing? posted by DR on May 27, 2005 at 10:10
I don't see how a relationship qualifies for this fetish unless there is ageplay.
My idealized role age for the woman is about as low as I've seen anyone favor:about 10 months (crawling,pre-verbal da-da-goo-goo stage,though still in the context of a sexual relationship...she is an ADULT baby!).However,this would have to be worked toward in stages (it's not the way to start scening with somebody) and having that ideal doesn't mean I couldn't be happy with someone who never got down that young after a good faith effort to see how far down she could be comfortable.
I am certainly more "loving" than "stern",though there is flexibility in working with a broadly compatible partner;someone who wanted more discipline I'd probably explore some other fetish with since Daddying is mainly a nurturing thing,but training elements could still see punishments if they helped the relationship.
Spanking would be a key element of discipline when necessary and effective;never done just for kicks.
Enemas might be explored but would not be a central feature;a relationship that made more of them would,again,likely not be based on this fetish (which is not my only role-fantasy and what I did with a particular woman would be a lifestyle we both enjoyed).
Diapers are absolutely central to this interest to me,I really can't see much involvement with an ageplaying woman who never got down to diaperable age.A non-age-playing DL might be interesting if she got into training.Diapers would proceed in stages at a pace she was comfortable with...though 24/7 dependence would be the logical endpoint it would not need to be reached if mutual enjoyment did not continue as we travelled towards it.There is no reason to go further than both partners remain comfortable.I expect that wetting would be explored before messing;I would encourage her to lose control but be understanding if she could not get that far...again,after good faith effort.
Punishment and reward both have their place but the balance would depend on the personality of the woman and the tone of the relationship.I can not abide someone who deliberately provokes punishment,I would want to teach lessons and have them learned by someone willingly seeking to meet the challenges I set.How strict the rules were for her would depend on what helped the relationship develop.
A woman staying in infant role is something that pretty much has to be private;publicly I expect she would wear adult clothes over diapers once ready for that.Circumstances in which others saw her in ageplay mode would be carefully managed so as to cause her a minimum of trouble/demoralization.
Always rules of thumb could go out the window for the right woman who made things click with me...but I would seek to see how deeply she could immerse herself in the infant role and how far we could both be comfortable with this,in the knowledge that after we seemed to attain that comfort level it might later wind up changing,in either direction,on the initiative of either of us.
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