Posted by A. on May 28, 2005 at 06:34 [12.210.221.132]
In Reply to: AB SITTER/ ALL REPLYS R WAY OFF BASE posted by JUST AN AB on May 27, 2005 at 17:28
I stand by the fact that your post was entirely off-topic. As to you charging a fee, I'm inclined to feel that TLC should be given freely. Trying to charge someone for the Daddying that many of us on this board desire to LOVINGLY give is something I personally find distasteful (just as I find strippers, escort services, and prostitues distasteful). Should you be allowed to do what you want in that regard? Absolutely, but look at it this way: if a friend of your's could choose between paying an escort to attention to him, and he had the POSSIBILITY of a loving, non-commercial relationship with a partner of the gender he preferred, wouldn't you suggest a relationship based around love, not some guy's desire to make a buck?
As to the idea that I "obviously know nothing about being an AB", I'll take this as evidence that you're one of the legion of (sadly) sexually non-functional "non-sexual" ABs.
Before you start defining "being an AB" as something that doesn't have a sexual component, look around: for a very large portion of the diaper scene, diapers, regression, babyhood, and ageplay are ALL very sexual. If you are not comfortable with sexual expression, therapy may be your best option. As an alternative, perhaps a considerate hooker might provide you with a low-stress way to acclimate to sex, counter-intuitive as such a suggestion might seem; after all, you may be socially or physically disabled and have trouble finding willing partners for that reason.
As to going elsewhere, I get the strong sense that you are yet another out-of-place AB male who is neither a Daddy nor a little girl. As such, I imagine that your ONLY PURPOSE here is to try to promote your "services" so as to make a buck on the loneliness and isolation of others in the scene. Until you identify as a "Daddy's girl" (which in my view could include sissies) or a Daddy, I think it is you who does not belong here. Unlike you, however, I will not be as presumptious as to insist that you leave; I simply ask that seriously consider what I have said. To do so, of course, it may mean taking a bit of a step back from yourself (and specifically, your PROFIT motive and your sexual dysfunction). If you can do so, I think you'll better see my point of view.
A.
P.S.- Learn the rules of the English language, and turn off your caps-lock. Such attempts to communicate as yours are painful to read for the educated world, and as such, you will find yourself often ignored or impugned if you continue in such a way.
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