Posted by Brian on May 06, 2005 at 21:36 [205.188.116.196]
In Reply to: I just told him how i feel posted by lauren on May 04, 2005 at 08:28
Sweetie,
Break it off! Now! He has the right to not find enjoyment in your desires, but he has no right to disapprove, or to hurt you with his judgement. By the extreme nature of his reaction, there is little reason to believe that you can hope to share any form of union with him that provides mutual satisfaction.
Even if he cares for you enough that he doesn't wish to lose you, any accomodations he might make, in order to keep you, would always be suspect and reluctant.
You deserve to find someone who has similar desires, and who will cherish the honor of being your Daddy. There are many on this board alone, quite a few of them from the UK, who are searching for a girl just like you.
You are young, and these issues - loss of a lover and possible conflict with your family - are difficult to address at any age, but you must believe that you will survive and prosper, regardless. As you get along in age a bit (but don't you dare grow up at all :-) you will gain confidence and learn that what others think about you is absolutely unimportant - in terms of choices to make about YOUR life or the nature of your self/sexual expression.
Your BF is NOT normal. If all he is interested in is boring, straight-ahead, 10 minutes of missionary position intercourse, he is distinctly a member of a rather unimaginative minority. It does not matter if all of his friends snicker. Behind their doors, in their closets, between their sheets, they conceal their own secrets.
Be brave! Keep your head up! Keep moving forward! Be true to yourself! There is a Daddy somewhere waiting for you, with a clean nappy and a firm, but gentle touch.
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