Posted by Bethan on April 25, 2005 at 19:50 [211.30.13.65]
In Reply to: Please any help posted by Lauren on April 23, 2005 at 04:09
Hi Lauren
I discoverd the AB/DL scene when i was 19. Until then it was very confusing and i felt that i was wierd in some way. Throughout my teens and early 20's i went out with guys and had regular sex and regular relationships. I also experimented with a couple of Daddies when i was about 22. I am glad i did all that as they were fun and all a learning expereince. However now im 26 im glad that im in a Little girl/daddy relationship because it is very intimate and i feel true love.
I you should think about what you want in life. Do you realy have strong feelings for this guy, enough to buy a house and settle down with him for the rest of your life. Its not a easy decision and should be not be rushed. Remeber that you are only 19/20 and at this point in your life you should be having a ball.
If you know him really well and trust him, then maybe tell him, but dont asume he will understand. He might be a bit confused.
Have you ever acted slightly babyish towards him or done little girl things? If so what did he do? Did he play along? These are some things you could think about to suss him out. If you havnt then try it and see what the reaction is. I think you should be yourself and gradually see what happens. You will know soon enough if he is right for you.
But like i said before, being 19/20 is an exciting part of you life and you should live life to the max. Even if you don't end up moving in with him and not having a boyfriend anymore, being single is not that bad. In fact being single at this point in your life enables you to figure out who you are and what you want and at the same time you can be care free for a while and have lots of fun. Remeber you have the rest of your life to buy houses, settle down, mow the lawn on a sunday (yawn) etc etc.
Hope this helps.
Bethan xxxxx
Email: bethancooke@yahoo.co.uk