Posted by Annie on April 10, 2005 at 03:54 [84.67.198.206]
In Reply to: Re: questions posted by Anais on April 09, 2005 at 23:35
Hi Anais, and thanks for replying, I'm not really sure whats the best or right way to go about a Daddy /baby relationship, being so new to this, (if such a thing exists). After hiding this desire for such a long time I've only recently got to the point where I accept it and want to explore it.
My gut reaction to the 24/7 thing is pretty much as you've stated, and like I've already said re work and other situations, the fear of discovery,and subsequent ridicule and humiliation just makes my blood run cold. I think it would be particularly scary if it was demanded from the start, not sure if I could deal with that, it would be too much and would very likely have me running for the hills!
Having chatted to L.E and A some, I think maybe if Daddy used the gentle approach to start off with, maybe in time once the emotional bond had had time to grow, I might feel happier being in the baby role more often.
Still not convinced about the 24/7 or being incontinent, but can get my head around coming home from work and being put straight in a nappy - having to wear one for bed and possibly weekends, rather than it being something that happened on a rare occasion.
Since you have a Daddy, maybe you could tell me if you became happier to wear nappies on a regular basis as your confidence in your relationship grew?
Also part of this I think would be affected by what contol/authority Daddy exerts.
I have a feeling that a if partner concerned was inadequate as diciplinarian or could be walked all over, then the trust, respect and obedience that a Daddy should expect would be very difficult in reality to give, much less feel.
I would feel so much more secure in a relationship where Daddy set rules, and expected me to do as I'm told. Ultimately all babies will try to push at the barriers (the classic terrible two's) but it would be so reassuring to know that Daddy could handle that and not give in and so demand respect and obedience.
In all honesty I would find it impossible to give up control to someone who sought to be a Daddy because they had no vestige of control in the rest of their life and hoped that controlling ME was the easy option and would make them feel like a man and perhaps less inadequate.
May not agree on this but I want a Daddy I can respect and look up to, I think once I felt secure in his control I'd feel less of a need to act like a brat to test how much I could get away with, and just concentrate on making Daddy happy. *(ie be better behaved and more obedient and cute as hell!)
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