Posted by Annie on April 08, 2005 at 07:30 [84.65.93.231]
In Reply to: Re: questions posted by L.E. on April 07, 2005 at 15:55
Perhaps it's just a little girl insecurity thing, but would worry if my Daddy was purposely training me to be incontinent like a real baby. If this was the case then would constantly worry that he might decide to go off with an "adult" he can have a grown up relationship with and not love me any more.
Maybe that sounds daft, and is probably quite a childish reaction, but if it did happen, then the baby is left in somewhat of a predicament isn't she? There would have to be a lot of trust between you.
Also, surely if you were stuck in nappies 24/7 you would get fed up of it and just NOT find it pleasureable - a turn on any more. At first I think it probably would be great, but after a while I'm not sure how realistic it is.
I for one want to live in the real world and keep this as my fantasy world.
I would find the idea of going out in public wearing a nappy both scary and exciting on occaision providing that only myself and Daddy were in on the secret.
However I feel uncomfortable with the idea of being put in nappy 24/7, the idea of having to go to work etc in nappy makes my blood run cold and I think could be quite destructive. Also there would be days when I want to go out as a grown up sexy woman and flirt with my partner over dinner or whatever - I'm not sure I'd really want to be a baby full time, I think after a while I wouldn't find it enjoyable but purely humiliating and frustrating and might grow to resent Daddy? If so this would defeat the object and kill the relationship.
Maybe what I'm saying is completely wrong, but I personally want to keep some sort of balance in my life and I'm far too intelligent and independant to allow myself to ever be completely dominated or brainwashed in any way. (and NO that wasn't a dig at you or anyone else!)
The very independance just mentioned above when relinquished or willingly and trusting handed over to someone else (ie Daddy) makes it so very much of a pleasure to be dominated, controlled, and MADE dependant.
I think maybe being an adult for periods in between being baby (even if only to go to work/ visit friends and family) would and could only make you look forward to, with anticipation your secret fantasy world of being a baby next time with Daddy.
In short I think a break from time to time would make it better.
I can see that from what you've written before that you might not agree with me there, but hey, I'm allowed a point of view! (at least at the moment smile)
The stricter that "Daddy" was with me, the more I'd like it, in the same way as the more babyish I was expected or made to be by "Daddy" the more I'd like it too.
You seem to be on the same wavelength in so many ways but I'm not sure on this one, maybe I'm just assuming whats not intended, but surely if you were deliberately training a baby to lose control then she eventually would really have to wear nappies 24/7?
I could live with that if it was to wear nappies every night and learn to lose control, hence NEED to wear a nappy to bed, but not convinced about during the daytime too, not sure I'd really like or want that.
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