Posted by DaddyJ on April 08, 2005 at 05:44 [68.169.42.250]
In Reply to: Re: Curious about being a "Daddy" posted by hen on April 08, 2005 at 04:10
What A. said is right.
Daddies and Little Girls must communicate, expressing what each is looking for and desires from the other.
Some Little Girls greatly enjoy being told what to do, and just about all LGs want to do what they can to please Daddy.
Indeed, Daddy must take charge and decide from time to time, but only what is best for him and his Little Girl. Especially what is best for his Little Girl!
However, a Daddy will only find out if his Little Girl desires such dominance if he actually asks her.
Besides, you defeat your own argument when you said, "I am interested to hear what the little girls think about this". Obviously you want their input so you can be a better care giver, or at least pick up some hints.
Maybe your phrasing was wrong.
Try, "what would you like for me to do?" or "what do you like?" and "what do you want?".
I always ask those questions to Little Girls, and they always respond positively. The more questions both of you ask the better.
If she is comfortable with you, try asking her what her favorite fantasy is. Doing that will give you plenty of hints as to what she likes.
In return, you tell her one of your favorite fantasies. Be honest about it.
You both talk about certain parts you like, dislike, interested in, and maybe willing to try.
It is all about give & take, and definitely about being comfortable & having fun.
DaddyJ
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