Posted by DR on May 19, 2005 at 01:35 [67.83.76.91]
In Reply to: Re: Please any help posted by Brian on May 06, 2005 at 23:49
Brian,
You wrote...
"It is true that many Daddies would settle for such, but it does not appear to be their primary desire. Most would prefer to find a LG for whom submission to their Daddy DEFINES their sexuality, and that, in my experience, and virtually ALL of the other Daddies (for whom being a Daddy DEFINES their own sexuality) I've discussed these matters with concur - that fine-feathered LG is a rare bird indeed."
Brian, you assume that most people know what defines their sexuality. I can count on one hand the number of ABDL's who I've met that can assuredly say what defines their sexuality. And I've met hundreds of diaper folk face-to-face.
You're absolutely taking my earlier comments out of context. I'm not suggesting that a Daddy seek out a submissive woman who will simply compromise by letting him diaper her. Rather, I'm saying that:
1) There are many, MANY submissive women out there
2) Of them, many, MANY consider LG and/or diaper desires to be their primary dynamic
3) And regarding all submissive women, many who aren't overtly into LG play or diaper play may find that these kinks "define their sexuality" after exploring them with a competent Daddy/Dom.
Which leads me to the conclusion I made in an earlier post -- its not hard to find a LG or diaper gal, but rather its a challenge to find the *right* gal. No need to cajole a woman into Pampers who doesn't want to be in one.
Rather than searching on the net, where women are correct to be cautious or silent, I recommend eligible Daddies get out to their local BDSM/kink group and mingle there. Over the years at my local SM group, I've probably (platonically) met 50 great submissive women into Daddy little-girl play. In fact, the demand for DLG meetings was so great at this SM group that I started an age-play special interest group just for them -- a well-attended group which I facilitated for three fun years. Incidentally, of those 50 or so women, I'd guess that at least half would be receptive to exploring diaper desires.
Of course, if your conclusions about the number of LG's are based on those which you see and meet in virtual space, then you're likely to be disappointed. That's like concluding that there aren't many grocery stores out there because its hard to find many quality ones on the Web.