Posted by Jona on May 18, 2005 at 21:44 [4.4.78.235]
In Reply to: Re: Testing 123 *hehe* posted by A. on May 18, 2005 at 18:31
A apparently cannot handle a conversation without the use of profanity. This usually shows a very youthful age, or a very bitter past that he is trying to take out on others to make himself feel justified.
The response was to a new person on the board, a board that is for Daddy's and girls who are for one reason or another expressing themselves in a child's state, either for love and acceptance and a feeling of innocence and safety, or for some other equally vulnerable position they may feel that they are in. Yet A responds with no care to this person, and with a near violent temper, deliberately trying to make this person feel devalued, ignorant, and worthless.
A then signs his "Adult Temper Tantrum" with a msg that is to attempt to gain some kind of sympathy from others, and asking the rhetorical question of 'why does he continue to feel the need to respond in such a negative way'. Isn't it perfectly within his power to act like the adult he claims to be and simply ignore the perceived offensive drivel, instead of allowing this person to work him into such a state of anger that he feels compelled to explode over an msg board on line to lash out at this person?
What a time to say hello, eh?
I wonder if this baord is used to such abuse. If it is, that is very sad.
True, little girl, if you want to have a healthy relationship with someone, you may not want to begin it by such a display of distrust. Everyone has been hurt in the past. It is unfair for you to test people, just as it was infair for A to judge you.
Though I am certain that many little girls find the need for such tests here or there, it still does not make the action a just one.
tish, you know where to find me.
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