Posted by Daddy Steve on March 19, 2005 at 03:16 [65.87.136.111]
In Reply to: What makes a LG vs AB? posted by MyMelody on March 18, 2005 at 11:20
What makes lilgirls ? Sugar and spice and everything nice? (just kidding )
Firstly I `d like to say I`ve enjoyed reading all the post on this topic. Personally , we`ve been a Daddy / LG couple for 4 years . We enjoy being active in the BDSM community locally and at national events.Over the years we`ve noticed ageplay being accepted better within the community and more "littles" coming out to events . It`s still a misunderstood side of the lifestyle for some . We`ve talked about this at great lenght . There`s slaves , subs , painsluts and there`s littles . Can a little be any of the above? Yes!!! It`s your relationship , you make the rules! Can you be LG and AB ? Why not? There might be times as LG your comfy age is more babyish. Being tuned in with each other is so important . For us , if she`s in deep lilspace and her comfy age is 7 ,,, the mention of being put in diapers or babyied takes her out of her lilspace.
On the other hand there are times she wants to be babyied . She gets very quite . The chitty chatty and playful lilgirl is gone from her . She just wants to be held and cuddled . It`s a special moment for us and it`s somewhat rare . It usually only happens when she`s been in lilspace for a extended period of time . I wonder if she just wears herself out and wants to be babyied? We both know that "lilspace" is a real state of mind not just a roleplay . She says " colors are more vibrant , sounds are more acute" She feels and is little in this state of mind and her little age can change .As Daddy , it`s so important for me to allow these changes in play age and let them happen naturally without interruption . Being the Dominant or Top in the relationship , it was hard at first to recognize she needed some "free reins" to explore her little self and not try to control her as in a typical D/s type relationship.
Just our perspective . Have fun !!!
Daddy Steve & lilshy :)
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