Posted by Dr. A Non Mouse PhD. on January 20, 2010 at 16:14 [68.89.175.232]
In Reply to: Re: Why do daddies loose interest? - Speculation posted by bunnyBottoms on January 18, 2010 at 18:08
I agree bunnyBottoms, I think that we live too much in the idealized and not enough in the reality. Its a common problem all across the board (I have been guilty of it myself, a couple of times). We have this fantasy that we build up in our head, that once the reality sets in, its often not as desired.
There is a lot of dishonesty in the community, mostly that stems from the nature of the internet. But because we are only afforded such communications due to the scarcity of available partners who enjoy the same things we do. But its because we build it up in our heads and hearts that we often find the greatest sting of betrayl. I know there a many daddies out there who can regale us of the horrors suffered due to boys pretending to be girls, or girls who don't want to fully commit. Or girls who can talk of daddies who say one thing, but then do another.
The truth is simply honesty. L.E. Expressed truth in his post down here at his inability to experience 24/7 with a girl of his own. I do so wish him the best on that. But without honesty, we can't reach the point where relationships are possible.
So there is an impasse. Hearts turn hard and bitter with constant assailable failure to be happy. Its not easy for anyone in this community to find happiness with someone else, but if you constantly pin it on the hope that this next person is "The One", then you're only setting yourself up for heartache.
I do wish the best for all in their search for happiness. Its not an easy journey, nor is it a quick one. Just don't get disheartened by many who want a fantasy but not the reality of a relationship.
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