Posted by Daddy Tom on May 04, 2010 at 20:35 [68.23.174.218]
In Reply to: Reasons its so hard to find a match..... posted by Huggs... on May 04, 2010 at 17:26
The most important thing is that you have more in common than just ab/dl. meeting someone who has this interest is only a fraction of the big picture. yes, it can be a difficult search to find someone who "gets you" on that level.
think about this. how long will something meaningful last when you have nothing else in common but ab/dl? if one want's to just play games and not have a lasting relationship its fine.
In my opinion this isn't something for the casual crowd. For me its a lifestyle that is also sexual. my little one and I have a lot of similar interests beyond all things ab/dl. if you don't have much in common beyond ab/dl you don't have much in the long run.
just my two pennies.
peace;)