Posted by Daddy T on November 30, 2009 at 15:05 [76.192.190.15]
In Reply to: Re: is there any hope posted by Zorro Daddy on November 30, 2009 at 08:10
Keeping the faith and not giving up is good advice. I don't agree with a Man waiting around for a woman to find him. Like anything in life, if you want it, you need to seek it out and not sit waiting for it to happen. a woman who is into this fetish finding a man happens maybe 1 out of 100 times. a submissive woman or any woman for that matter wants to be found not the other way around.
Fate and luck have little to do with it. you need to have more going for you than just wanting to be a Daddy. you need confidence. the more you put yourself out there, the more likely it will be that you find someone beyond a computer screen. you have to be willing to be rejected. pining for this perfect baby girl, like most guys online do, will lead to a very lonely life. wish in one hand, Sh#t in the other and see which one gets filled first. Be realistic about it.
Fetlife is a decent fetish personal site. some genuine people on there. a lot of the people on those sites are just looking for a good time and nothing that lasts. I left Fetlife after a few months and i found my baby girl for the long haul. we are close in age, she is older than I am by a couple years...gasp...lol.. and we want the same things. I tore my hair out dealing with a former little one I was with who was ten years younger than me. sometimes it works, most times it doesn't. having a connection beyond all this is most important. don't rule out seeking a woman who may be AB/DL unaware. if she is really into you, she will accept you for all you are. its a chance worth taking rather than sitting alone and doing the wishing thing...