Posted by dad2u on November 26, 2009 at 12:01 [75.38.66.128]
In Reply to: so, it was inevitable I guess... posted by tilly on November 24, 2009 at 18:03
Sorry hon, but your BF did you a favor by leaving, even if it was for his own selfish reasons. You should have been the one to dump him after he gave you that ultimatum. I think anyone who really cared for you would have taken the time to find out what happened in your life to make you feel the way you now do ( longing to hold on to your lil side). You do need to deal with these feelings and be comfortable with who YOU are before you can expect anyone else to be comfortable with, and supportive of you. This may very well be a side of you that is with you for life so I strongly hope that any future partners you choose will have an open mind and put your needs and wants right up there with theirs.
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