Posted by sfldaddy on October 04, 2009 at 13:20 [76.106.199.177]
In Reply to: A problem many AB's have posted by Bianca on October 03, 2009 at 19:59
OMG what an incredibly intelligent post! And your spelling is perfect, Bianca! Where am I? LOL
Wow did that need to be said! Women tend to blame men for their problems (especially if they become pregnant, "he did it!"), just as men often blame women.
But the most important part of the post had to do with love addiction, Its co-dependence (as you know) is usually sex addiction.
What is interesting about that statement in this particular place is, a frightening amount of female Adult Babies were at an early age molested or raped, which left them with sex (I prefer to call it violence), yet with the absence of love. Which is what the so desperately seek with a Daddy. But as you so correctly said, Bianca, nobody can completely fulfill anyone.
My late wife used to say, "You can't make me happy (or sad or angry). Nobody can make me happy. Only I can make me happy."
Having said all of that, I do all I can to make life easier for my GF (we've been living together for two years), as she does for me. We help one another through bad times. I remember what it was like to be single (after my late wife passed away from a disease I had no control over), and wish so much that ABs could find Daddies who feel the same way. One of the biggest killers of people is loneliness.
So what I do is from the heart; I try to befriend people online so that if nothing else, I can be of solace to them as needed. I also credit other online strangers who helped me get through horrible times during the time she was afflicted, and after she passed.
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