Posted by dad2u on August 21, 2009 at 15:50 [71.138.214.148]
In Reply to: Can I be happy again? posted by anon on August 18, 2009 at 19:00
Real Dads, like real BabyGirls get hurt too. I think it helps to have some "ideal" of what you specifically want in a Daddy, and just concentrate on that. Personally, I prefer to " parent" BabyGirls who lost their childhood to abuse. It's an area I'm able to help them with because to them, i'm just a daddy, not a boyfriend.
(Do one thing and do it right.) I have found over the years that more then a few AB girls have found themselves at a crossroad where issues of trust and low self esteem have made it hard for them to have normal relationships Until that void in their life ( missing childhood) is filled , they will most likely continue to have problems. You need to risk a lil hurt to find the right person to help you- we ALL do.. just take chances on people who'll put YOU first, before themselves. Hugs
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