Posted by A. on March 02, 2005 at 22:03 [12.210.221.132]
In Reply to: Re: Safewords posted by Anais on March 02, 2005 at 20:10
Anais,
Thanks for the reply. How did you come to use a "caution" word? Was it your idea, or your Daddy's? Based on your thoughtful and well-reasoned explanation, I'm inclined to believe the suggestion was your's (not that its of any import). Frankly, I love bottoms who seek structure to a relationship, so long as they're willing to give the top adequate opportunity to live up to their expectations).
My problem has been convincing bottoms (who are sometimes newish to anything beyond "stand-and-model" kink) that introducing such a formalized thing as in-role "traffic signals" into sex-play is worthwhile.
as always,