Posted by cuddlemonkey on February 22, 2009 at 09:57 [96.248.230.117]
In Reply to: It's usually men who can't be monogamous but... posted by Confounded on February 21, 2009 at 18:02
when are you having the monogamy talk with them? it's best to let a relationship develop naturally, just because she doesn't want to be monogamous when you first start dating doesn't mean that she doesn't ever. sure some people play games and they deserve to be cut loose, but rushing a serious relationship is often a recipe for disaster.
so if her party line is 'not monogamous, never gonna happen,' that's different than 'i just met you, want to take things slow and keep my options open while we get to know each other.' one is an issue of compatibility, the other of comfort level. in my experience most people will want to be at least somewhat monogamous when they ankle round to settling down with someone. never hurts to be patient with little girls :)
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