Posted by L.E. on February 14, 2009 at 11:54 [166.84.1.2]
In Reply to: Does a man like this exist? posted by Doubtful on February 13, 2009 at 21:09
I am not interested in any species of "topping from the bottom" where the nominal superior is in fact run ragged servicing the pleasures of the submissive.I can work within many dom/sub scenarios/paradigms but only as the one making the rules and determining what the other one does.
Daddy/ABgirl is perhaps the framework in which I could come closest to what you describe,since the ABgirl's role involves her being in need of caregiving (in contrast to a service-oriented submissive responsible for countless chores).But the Daddy's provision of her caregiving is in return for her embracing helplessness as part of her submissive identity.(I idealize a crawling pre-verbal infant role for the ABgirl,not a walking,talking,tantrumming Terrible Two).A girl who didn't follow Daddy's rules for how helpless she was supposed to be would face sincere discipline,not useless-to-Daddy gratification of her tantrum-making-Daddy-spend-all-his-time-on-me fetish.Cuddling and nurturing the helpless innocent depends on her being one!
And there is no way in the world that I would cross-dress or submit to the use of a strap-on on me.
I do recall hearing from a woman whose dominant master was an AB,so this role interpretation you favor is out there...but not for me.
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