Posted by MyMelody on February 28, 2005 at 10:03 [24.21.243.123]
In Reply to: your advice please posted by no name on February 28, 2005 at 09:24
I think the most important thing in any relationship is the concept of "consenting adults". Even in a roleplay relationship you're both still adults and have a right to decide what feels right for you. One of the things I've found helpful is to establish a "safeword" so that if things go too far you can ask for a timeout and talk about things. It's one thing to have your boundaries stretched a little, but another to feel helpless and put in a position where you *can't* say no.
If he's a good partner and daddy, he'll listen to your concerns and you two can negotiate what feels right to you. And if he's not willing to respect your boundaries, you should leave. If you really feel unsafe, go be with friends or family or there are shelters you can stay at till you get on your feet.
Don't worry about losing a Daddy if he's not respecting you and you don't feel safe with him. There are *tons* of nice guys out there looking for a little girl. Just be *sure* in the future that you get to really know someone before getting too involved, and don't be afraid to be clear and firm with your expectations. Any Daddy worth having will respect a girl who desires to please but also stands up for herself.
Good luck with things, and take care of yourself!
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