Posted by Outrider on December 29, 2008 at 06:12 [71.147.49.18]
In Reply to: Re: Accidents posted by Asuka on December 28, 2008 at 11:05
If you're worried about punishment for wetting, one way to either work through it or avoid it is to take the feelings in another direction. While practicing wetting, visualize an appropriate emotional response and practice that too along with your wetting. You tried so hard to be a good girl and now you wet and you know its wrong and just let that build into a shower of tears while you suck your thumb and Daddy is going to give you a great big hug rather than think for one second about scolding you. Practice pouting and appropriate little girl body language, holding your arms close around your center or your arms behind your back while digging a toe into the ground. There is a lot of acting that goes into this type of play besides just wetting and you can ask your Daddy what little girl does when she didn't make it to a potty in time. The main thing is, you know what you don't want, scolding or punishment, so just don't play in that direction as you train.
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