Posted by elle on December 27, 2008 at 10:11 [76.103.175.35]
In Reply to: Can someone Discuss Something? posted by DaddyNoraa on December 27, 2008 at 07:45
I was attracted to my Daddy's profile initially because he said NOTHING about the kink/fetish stuff. We connected on collarme.com. He had a list of his kinky likes and dislikes, but the main bulk of his personal area was filled with stuff about his life and the kind of man he was. He talked about his time living overseas, the languages he spoke, his love for food, his job, etc. He was a real person, who had a life and a job, and just happened to be into all the kinky and BDsM stuff I was.
He didn't get me to fall in love with him. It just happened because we were so compatible.
And remember that looking for the kinky "one" takes just as long, if not longer, than looking for your vanilla "one". Try to connect with a person first.
Also, mix up the venues you use to search. There are alot of real life munches and ageplay meetups. Even though there may be no singles at those groups, if you hang out with the couples, eventually they may vouch for you to a new babygirl. Fetlife.com has quite a few D/lg groups too. I think there are even a few singles groups there.