Posted by elle on November 26, 2008 at 07:56 [24.5.15.249]
In Reply to: Re: Incontinence Training posted by L.E. on November 25, 2008 at 21:00
L.E.
Ummm...have you ever had a real baby? I only ask because you write "A girl who aspires to make her Daddy service her whenever she wants is not the adorable helpless innocent who inspires the caregiving impulse". You don't leave a real infant in messy or wet diapers. There is no Daddy's schedule. You change them the minute they cry. That's why parents get up at three in the morning when the kid has diarrhea. Ask any parent and they will tell you that the infant is very much in charge. Your life revolves around their feeding, sleeping, and pooping schedule. Servicing an infant is exactly what the first year of parenting is all about.
An AB doesn't have to be incontinent to be at her Daddy's mercy. Yes, sometimes I ask to play, but if he's not in the mood (my Sir) then we don't play. If he tells me I'm wearing a diaper today, and that I'd better use it by blank time, I'm going to do just that. Please stop making assumptions on the relationship dynamics of those who choose not to be incontinent.
Your post screams of a "one true way", and is condescending towards those who view things differently than you. Just because someone doesn't play the way you like doesn't make the girl less "innocent" just different.
When I first came to this board I went back and read all of your post, because they seemed so thoughtful and cool. Now I see that you subtly put down people who aren't into "the right way" and I find that rude.
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