Posted by Zorro Daddy on August 29, 2008 at 08:28 [69.248.57.15]
Security, feeling safe and protected, is something that a lot of AB girls don’t often experience. They rarely feel safe enough to open their hearts and indulge the wishes there within.
And it’s very unfortunate that they don’t ever find themselves in a situation where they trust enough to reveal what they long for deeply and secretly. It is within those yearnings that you will see what a girl is made of and truly all about. You never see what she truly loves, what she wants in life, and the type of BabyGirl she wants to be.
Feeling safe is one of the greatest feelings in the world. Being made to feel safe by someone else is a feeling so great it is beyond any other. For a Daddy, a BabyGirl that smiles because of him is someone that he comes to need just as much.
When I say “The Big Three”, I am talking about the pacifier, the blanket, and the teddy bear. The three most common items that can bring a Babygirl that sense of safety, security, and warmth (aside from the diaper, the disposable diaper hopefully). Every BabyGirl loves one of them, if not all three. It’s these items that serve to help and remind a girl that she is protected, even when her Daddy is not around. Wanting to live a life where she is cradled, hugged, played with, and made to feel wonderful inside when she not only wants it but needs it most….that is a testament to her heart’s wishes.
When her heart goes from using phrases like “interested in”, “exploring” and “curious about” to feeling the emotions of words and phrases like “want”, “desire”, “long for”, “need”, “cry out”, “ache for”, and “crave”, it is then that she begins to discover what her heart is all about and what is within it.
Any Daddy who lives for the sight of her smiling face, and the warmth of fulfilling her wishes, will remember what her heart seeks by looking at what his heart seeks as well.
When she curls up on your lap in a t-shirt and diaper with her pacifier and blanket to comfort her, and she begins to get comfortable, it is then that you complete the trio. You produce her teddy bear from behind her back, and if you have touched her heart, if you have found a way into her soul, maybe her eyes will say “You Remembered!” as an honest smile comes across her face that warms the color of her face. (And that is something beautiful, AB related or not. When a girl’s face finds a happiness it didn’t have a moment ago, a guy is taken back by it.)
How she holds her “Big Three”… the pacifier in her lips, the blanket and teddy bear – snuggly to her face and body, tell you they make her feel good, and feel safe. Then she cradles up to you, snuggly to your body … you make her feel good, and feel safe as well.
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