Posted by Daddy Tom on March 24, 2008 at 07:05 [64.12.116.203]
Hello everyone. good to see the board is still around and people are actively posting. i recently ended an almost three year long relationship with a wondeful babygirl. she was the first babygirl i have been with who was significantly older than me. she is 38 i am 31. we both were on the rebound and found each other at a time when we were in the depths of hell. we saved each other. we helped each other get to this point and we are both better now than we were then.
I knew from the beginning that she had a strong desire to be with a mommy. she was bi curious and had never been in a relationship with a mommy. i knew that this was something that was a deep need for her. over time it became more evident. towards the end of last year she began to withdraw from me little by little.
so we talked and worked things out. it wasnt easy of course. my feelings for her towards the end were stronger for her. so we parted ways in a very healthy way. i know if we didnt confront this soon it would have ended badly. im happy to say that we are still fiends. she is an amazing woman. i am supporting her in her search for a mommy. i still babysit her and we have a bond that will last the test of time. we have become the closest of friends. she supports me as well.
im proud to say that i have found a new little one. she is kind, sweet and mature. im bringing her along slowly. when i first brought up diapers to her she was very unsure. so i talked her through the tough times. i nurtured her and made her feel comfortable with it all. im proud to say that in less than two months time she has been wearing huggies training pants and wetting them with no problems. she is in college and is very busy with athletics as well. we plan on meeting as soon as the ncaa tournament ends.
my daddy fire has be reignited. i plan on sharing more of her development as a lil one when i have the time. i wish all of you the very best.
dont dream it, be it
Daddy Tom