Posted by nurturngsir on November 07, 2007 at 22:40 [65.189.158.255]
In Reply to: Re: Bears are nicer than Daddies posted by Whoeveruever on November 05, 2007 at 12:31
the word is "assert", you buffoon.
How can you UNDERSTAND what words like submissive and dominant mean, if you can't even spell a word like "assert" when your trolling. No ones perfect, but if your going to troll someone, trying to be "the daddy", or "the big man" those are big shoes to fill and you better learn to proofread or you end up making a fool of yourself.
How can you know what masculine is without knowing firsthand what feminine is? Maybe if you understood what it was to be fem or "sissy", you would understand what it is to be masculine, instead of just merely overcompensating for obvious inadequacies...
I laugh at you while I sit here painting my nails in my nightgown. I have more dominance in my pinky than you have in your whole body. Anyone can dominate someone that wants to be submissive if they want it bad enough to look past your obvious inadequacies, but only if your secure in who you are, can you really exude dominance to a level where the person feels "safe" and "protected" and goes into a "little headspace", if you've been there, you know. If you've had men give you blowjobs, and cuddled them in your lap protectively, making them feel safe, without having to be threatening, then you would understand what exuding dominance is.
Being the daddy isn't about being the bully, it's about being strong enough to protect "the little" from a cold world, and offer guidance and nurturing, not massaging your inadequate ego.
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