Posted by KittyKat on May 14, 2007 at 10:51 [70.225.82.88]
In Reply to: Opening Up and Letting It Out posted by Zorro on May 13, 2007 at 23:37
I finally told my husband two days ago that I wanted him to diaper me. It took some courage, definately, but was made easier by him already knowing I like diapers. The main thing that I worried about was him thinking that one day there would be more-and-more stuff that would "come out", and realizing that he would not be happy in a fetish-only relationship. I also worried that he would feel the strain of more responsibility (I have endemetriosis, and cannot work currently) and not be able to handle it and that it might cause a rift in our marriage. He turned out to be fine with it, and when he diapered me last night he was really gentle and sweet. I had a much worse time telling my ex-boyfriend that I was into peeing (just peeing, not even diapers at the time.... I wasn't to that "safe" point with him...). I wasn't even planning on telling him, but he told me about his fetish (something REALLY tame, like wanted to have sex with a women around 40....pretty common I think). I had to tell him mine through email and couldn't look at him right after he read it. It also worked out pretty well. Here's a tip for everyone who is afraid: use your own judgement, but I've found that hiding what you want from the people you love and trust is a gigantic waste of time. I can count how many times I've missed out on something I've wanted because fear kept me from taking a chance. Life is wayyyy too short. And if the person or people you tell hate you, fuck 'em, and if they spread it around, rather than looking at it as a source of sever embarrassment, see it as a chance to inadvertantly meet other people who are interested or even just indifferent. Before you tell someone, try and figure out what it is you like about being a baby/daddy/etc so that you can explain it. Some people are just afraid or upset when they find out because they think it is something entirely different that it is. Hope this helps anyone out there. You can always email me if you have an questions or anything, or just post it here. :-)
Kat
Email: coreyskitty666@yahoo.com