Posted by The Voice Of Reason on September 09, 2004 at 07:41 [213.123.247.222]
In Reply to: Re: Partner reaction Re. fetish posted by allalone on September 08, 2004 at 03:33
Could someone please try to explain something to me cos I seem to be missing a trick. Maybe I'm naive or something, and I genuinely want to know the answer.
Why do so many people go with a girl who either doesn't know about, or doesn't approve of, your diaper fetish? I seem to be in a minority of one here, because I just couldn't even DREAM of being with a girl who wasn't totally aware of, and comfortable with, my real personality and my real needs.
I always assumed that this was a website where I could write simply, plainly and unasahamedly "I like to wet/mess my diapers". And it is, so I'm not having a pop at anyone here. It just puzzles me that so many of you try to ease your way into relationships with "normal" people, all the while pretending to be normal yourselves presumably. How do you do it? Cos I just can't pretend to be normal when it comes to being with a woman, I'm a shitty pissy freak and as far as I'm concerned getting that off my chest and out in the open ranks as priority Number One! If she hates it then fair enough, I was always honest with her and spared her any deeper emotional involvement. And if she likes it then right from the outset I've shared with her a big secret and trusted her with my real emotions. I can't even contemplate going thru all the deceit of having to cover that up for weeks, months or even years.
And yet, there are girls out there (and even in HERE!) who seem to prefer I did exactly that, who seem to want a man to play the "normal" game for a few months before unleashing their animal side. Girls who talk about preferring a man to get to know them emotionally first before revealing their sexual dysfunctions. Well I say to that: how the f*** does repressing your inner sexuality for weeks contribute to getting to know someone "emotionally"?
How can you have any kind of genuine relationship with someone who doesn't know? How do you do it? And, maybe more to the point, WHY do you do it? What do you get from these bogus relationships? What am I missing out on, 'cos I just can't see the appeal of being with a girl who ain't into it.
Please someone answer my queries!, preferably a woman who will kindly and patiently explain to me what you want from a man, and if there's any hope for a guy like me with a totallly honest approach (i.e. if you can't take my messy side then let's not waste each other's time!)
Peace and love to you all,
Email: animal6774@yahoo.com