Posted by L.E. on September 08, 2004 at 12:13 [12.144.5.5]
We each probably consider our own predicament harder than anyone else's because it's the one whose difficulties we're personally aware of.
Some guys into this fetish want to be the only diaper wearer while their gf/wife is the mommy,some want her to be a baby sister or colleague-DL,in my case I would only want diapers in a relationship if it was the woman who wore them,not me...I want the caregiver/daddy role,that is the entirety of my interest in the fetish.
It's possible to either comb the diaper personals for someone already into diapers,or find someone you form an attachment to and then bring up diapers.There is IMO no point in a relationship with someone with whom you wouldn't want one whether or not there were diapers.
The fear of course is there that if you tell her you want her to wear diapers you won't have a chance at the relationship continuing without the diapers if she says no.And for the guys who wear the diapers themselves I am sure they're afraid of being dumped for that.I can't really know if their prospect is harder or easier than mine because I only know mine and they only know theirs.
I know I'd have to take it a little at a time,find out how far she wanted to go and not push her farther or faster.But given a closeness with someone I don't think one should be afraid to even suggest the idea.
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