Posted by D(i)L(bert) on October 18, 2003 at 15:27 [64.12.97.7]
In Reply to: Dear Abby posted by John Doe on October 15, 2003 at 19:23
What you can explain to "Dear Abby" is that the shrinks you have talked to are not concerned about the harmless symbols (teddy and blankie)(or for most of us, our diapers, but don't say that!)but about the failure of this girl to "grow up" and become an independent adult.
And for that dependency, yes, the girl does need a counselor. It's unhealthy, can lead to her abusing a hubby, and is obviously trying her parents patience.