Posted by nappy_and_pilchers on June 01, 2010 at 17:34
In Reply to: Re: keeping secrets posted by JustAnotherGuy on June 01, 2010 at 16:24
gday,
sounds like it is time to move on. im lucky in that im not "forcing" anything on anyone... im the one who likes to wear nappies.
all this has not come without compromise though... i am submissive to my wife which means i have little to no control over most things in our lives.
this may sound like fun to some (and it mostly is) but at times it is just so hard. i literally have to ask to buy *anything*. i am given $40 per week for lunches and thats it. my wife has my credit cards, she sets the rules and i obey or the fun stops.
while this is a fantasy for some people... it really is the greatest thing in the whole world but it certainly is very real and has very real downsides.
i have never felt so in love with my wife and the truth is that everyday we get closer. once you have been held in your lovers arms and told "its ok, just let go..." as you look into her eyes and release a huge load into your nappy... well, the bond has to be quite strong for a situation like that to occur.
there are other downsides as well... on a social level I have always been the one to blend in, to not draw attention to myself amongst family/friends and associates for fear of my secrets being found out... on the other hand, my wife doesnt give a crap and at times really truly embarrasses the crap out of me in front of guests. We have had blow ups over this but I am learning to accept that this is how it is. my wife is a strong woman and isnt going to change for me or anyone else.
on the nappy front, she has worn them... hates it and its reserved for birthdays and other special occasions.
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