Posted by Maria on January 19, 2004 at 10:44 [4.72.12.236]
In Reply to: Finding Panty pooping Girls is not so hard posted by Happy Man on January 18, 2004 at 22:39
I agree that alt.com is a good place to start, but you can easily go farther. Just do a google search using the phrase bdsm and the name of your community or closest big city, and you may well find that there is a group of fetishists in your area. If you want to get involved, you will start by going to a “munch,” which is just a social get together, everybody wears ordinary clothes and acts vanilla. I can recommend this especially to the women, because it is in many ways safer than sex in the vanilla world, lots of supportive women who will look out for you. It will probably take time before you can share your fetishes with others, but I also agree to start with watersports, because it is more common. All my kinky friends know that I am into ws, and my only problem has been the fact that more men seem to like it than women, so I get asked out on more dates than I can ever say yes to. The whole issue of scat is more difficult, since even in the kinky world a lot of people really hate it. I was afraid to share my feelings with anyone else, but in the summer of 2002 I got “outed” in front of some of my friends. At first I felt horrible, like I would become an outcast, but that didn’t happen. It’s true that no one else was interested, but no one has criticized me about it either. In fact there was one woman who has shown a kind of fascination about it and asked me many questions, but she doesn’t have the nerve to do it herself. She did introduce me to one old scat man for whom I filled my pants, but we were not attracted to each other.
I seldom go out with vanilla guys anymore, but when I do I have a strategy that works pretty well for watersports. I pretend to be desperate to pee, I squirm and do the dance. Men will give a girl one of three reactions. Some are obviously not into it, and hurry to find a toilet for you. In this case, give up. Sometimes I see guys who are obviously turned on, because you can see it in their eyes, but they are too afraid to let it be known. And then there are a few who just cannot disguise it and actually try to tell jokes to make me laugh, poke or even tickle me. These guys get a nice reward.
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