Posted by Mary on January 15, 2004 at 13:23 [24.205.194.185]
In Reply to: Finding a willing woman is like winning the lotter posted by Bill2 on January 15, 2004 at 10:55
I find it kind of upsetting that you make such sweeping generalizations about women. While it is probably true that most women don't hold their fetishes as prerequisite when finding a mate, it is unfair to say the ONLY men do.
As a woman who genuinely enjoys pantypooping and does not do so at the request of my partner, but rather requests it of HIM, I can't say that I did not consider my fetish when chosing my mate. My husband, although he does not participate, accepts my fetish and does not love me less or find me any less attractive because of it. Had he not been so accepting of my strange turn ons I doubt I would be with him today. And because he continues to say that one day he might indulge me that makes it even easier for me to have this fetish.
In short, what I am saying is that women do consider their sexual satisfaction important when finding a mate, VERY important. We just aren't as likely to need our fetishes indulged to achieve that satisfaction. Anyway, Bill, try not to think things like "Only Men" and "Women Don't" because it is never that black and white and I hate to see you or anyone decide how a certain group of people "is" or "isn't" based only on their own limited experiences.
Thanks to anyone who actually READ this. Don't give up hope guys and girls. Though you may not feel so, there IS more to life than sexual gratification.