Posted by Maria on August 08, 2010 at 08:58 [67.164.145.230]
In Reply to: Why does this board treat women the way it does? posted by Agirl on August 08, 2010 at 04:10
You need a really thick skin if you want to stay here, dear.
And if you think the Pooper's Board is bad, you don't want to go anywhere NEAR the Wetter's Board, which is MUCH worse.
How likely is it that a woman over forty, having given birth to several children, will wet her pants if she laughs too hard after a few glasses of wine? Very likely. And how likely is it that her husband will find himself with a rousing hard-on because of it, and that they will have a little bedroom fun later on? Also very likely.
But these people will never post on fetish message boards like this one. Why not? Because they're not lonely. It's the lonely ones who come to the boards to reach out.
And they are lonely because they are frightened. They are frightened to go out into the world and seek a real woman with whom to share their needs. They would rather watch a youtube of some 13-year-old who wets her pants and falls over the couch because she got wasted raiding her Mommy's pharmaceutical cabinet. A "woman" like that is easy to handle because she is sheer fantasy.
But the idea of turning off the computer, going out into the world, and meeting a real woman -- whether at a night club, a dance class, or even a friend's party -- is terrifying to them.
Hatred and rage arise from fear. This applies to people who hate and fear those whose skins are a different color or who practice a different religion just as much as it applies to someone who rages at women because he is afraid of them.
Hatred and fear can never be separated.
They lash out at us because they don't know how to deal with us, dear. And that's the full extent of it.
If you are tough enough to stay here, though, you will in fact meet some wonderful guys, who will become dear e-mail friends, and who are not afraid of you, but perfectly welcoming.
You just have to ignore all the other ones and not take it personally. It's not about you. It's about them.
Keep your pants full.
M.