Posted by Maria on August 07, 2010 at 07:33 [67.164.145.230]
There is so much resentment and flaming about whether certain posts or written by a woman or a man.
I am one of those who agrees that it doesn't really matter as long as the post is enjoyable and contributes to the board.
But for those who are obsessed with knowing the difference, my own perspective as a woman is as follows:
If you ask a man about a kitchen, he will reply in terms of square footage, materials used for cabinets and counter-tops, strength of plumbing and dimensions of the pipes.
Ask a woman about the same kitchen, and she will talk about whether the windows produce good sunlight, whether the storage is convenient for her own personal style of cooking, and whether it has the same cozy atmosphere as her beloved aunt's kitchen in the country.
If someone posts a message which talks about size and consistency of load, details of female body parts, frequency of the act, and so on without any emotional tone, the post was probably written by a man.
A post which deals with the emotions experienced while filling one's pants, i.e. humiliation, sexual arousal, combination thereof, repercussions on relationship with partner, actual sensual feeling of doing it and so on, you might be reading the post of an actual woman.
This, at least, is my opinion.
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