Posted by Long Rambling Poster on November 14, 2005 at 18:11 [66.28.235.62]
In Reply to: the shorter version..... posted by Long Rambling Poster on November 14, 2005 at 17:46
This really is the shorter version in the form of an email I just sent to the ex. I post it not just to vent my own personal issues in the one of the few places one can talk about these things but in the hope that it spurs some interesting and relevant discussion and airing of viewpoints.
You met me on a "daddy/little girl" messageboard. Did it never occur to
you that the very fact that I was on such a board might indicate that I
had some growing up to do as you put it or at the very least that I wasn't
going to be like other women you had dated? If I went back and read the
emails that passed between us or the messages you posted on that board
about how special such a connection was I think it would break my heart to
the point of no return. Was I to assume that such sentiments were not
truthful or merely said in the heat of the moment,expendible and easily
tossed away? I never hid from you that I had this fetish in part because I tended
to be too trusting and vulnerable. Did you not think that that would have an effect on how I viewed our relationship?
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That's purely a rhetorical question because clearly these things did not occur to him but was I asking too much that he would consider them?