Posted by gertrude on November 11, 2005 at 10:03 [66.28.235.62]
In Reply to: Re: split personalities so to speak....thank you!! posted by L.E. on November 11, 2005 at 07:14
any misconceptions I might be proferring forth here but I've read your posts LE and it seems to me that you seem to want a woman who is completely regressed back to this infantile being which can't be all that healthy for either party. To lose night time continence is one thing but your previous posts seem to indicate that you prefer someone who has lost all control to the extent that it would hamper their day to day existence. Indeed my post is speaking to the issue of how women should manage that dichotomy, not be comfortable in the infant role as you put it. The problem I see is that it is too easy to become comfortable with one's vulnerability and there is the Monday morning quaterbacking that comes as one's less vulnerable side tries to make peace with that. Your posts disturb me in that they reduce a very complex dynamic into something so one sided and simple as to ultimately be unhealthy.
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