Posted by L.E. on October 11, 2005 at 11:02 [82.96.100.100]
In Reply to: Re: Self-definition is NO definition <---- Bad Pos posted by DR on October 11, 2005 at 09:21
See,as *I* see it the kink community's problem is the very attitude you're trying to foster...that because some kinks are OK there is not such thing as a kink that ISN'T OK.When in fact being able to tell when someone has gone too far is the very qualification that entitles us to wander "off the reservation" in the first place.And of course your position is paradoxical...you want to exclude everybody who wants to exclude anybody,and that includes you!
I got kicked out of an online AB-related group before you were old enough to join one (not for anything I did,but because the head of the parent forum leaned on the section leader to make it only for those who were ABs themselves,not interested in AB partners).I don't see you as the fount of pontifical wisdom even if your mitre is color-coordinated with your plastic pants.
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