Posted by DR on October 08, 2005 at 13:45 [67.83.76.91]
In Reply to: Re: OH, YOU'RE REAL CONFUSED posted by pamper baby girl on October 08, 2005 at 13:22
Pamper Baby Girl wrote,
"let me set the record straight. i AM unlike any diaper girl u have met."
You don't know that. I've met my share and your share and his share and her share. But *EVERY* diaper girl is unique, so if you're saying that you're unique -- well, that's trite.
And Pamper Baby Girl wrote,
"i have yet to meet any DYKE DADDYS or DYKE diaper girls."
Well then you aren't looking in the right places. We had a lesbian Mommy/AB couple at our second SIDNY party, and had many bi diaper girls at our last party.
Or maybe you might try attending meetings at the Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM). They are a New York City based alternative sexuality support and social group for women only.
But really your sexual orientation here is irrelevant. No one, including myself, cares what your orientation is. I'm about making friends. I don't care if you're straight, gay, bi, transgendered, intersexed, kinky. If I can trust a person, and if I like them, then we can be friends, irrespective of sexual orientation.
So stop bringing up your orientation. Its insulting and immaterial to this conversation.
And Pamper Baby Girl wrote,
"and i have been to diaper partys and the like."
Well apparently you didn't learn very much; your attitude is terrible. Did you attend *PARTIES* or did you attend *MUNCHES* or did you attend *EDUCATIONAL MEETINGS?* There's a huge difference among these. Because if you're looking for *SINCERITY,* then you might want to closely consider the differences.
And finally, Pamper Baby Girl wrote,
"go ahead and correct me. your not the end all be all of diapers"
Listen, if you can't have a reasonable conversation, then don't speak at all. I never pretend to be something I'm not -- and I never said I was the beginning and the end of diaperdom.
What I said is that my experience and expertise in this community speak for themselves. You could learn a few things from me, and from the others here, if you remembered that old lesson from Sunday school -- why God gave you two ears and only one mouth...
... so you could listen twice as much as you speak. Start listening to those here who are on *YOUR* side, and want to help you achieve your goals.