Posted by DR on October 08, 2005 at 10:08 [67.83.76.91]
In Reply to: Re: OH, YOU'RE A REAL PILL posted by pamper baby girl on October 08, 2005 at 07:12
Pamper Baby Girl wrote,
"what all of u here r the leading experts?"
I can't speak for anyone else, but my experience and expertise in this community speaks for itself
PBG, you obviously don't know with whom your speaking because otherwise you wouldn't make such silly comments as your earlier comment, "because none of u have met a woman who wears and uses diapers..."
I've met so many diaper women PBG, that I can't remember their names. That's what happens when you organize over 50 munches, nearly 20 educational meetings, several parties, several mini-parties, and many small events over a seven year period.
My response about how wrong you are pertains to that comment specifically, and none other.
Alternately, I understand your concerns about protecting yourself from trolls, HNG's, and the like. I've not made any comment to disagree with your point there. You are wise to protect yourself. Some do have malicious motives.
However, what you fail to understand is that I *know* first hand that diaper group meetings are much *safer* than one-on-one rendezvous. With my group, I always took deliberate action to protect women -- particularly new women -- from overanxious men.
And while I wasn't always successful -- even my diaper slave girl was harassed at one such gathering while I went out for a cigarette -- my protecting presence prevented *MOST* harassment from ever taking place. Which suggests that *nothing* in life is 100% safe, but that group meetings are a *safer* way to meet people. I've heard *many* more horror stories from those who met one-on-one.
In addition, I think you have the complete wrong impression about diaper group gatherings, which are *NOT* at all about "looking for a g
ood time" but are about making friends while sitting in a restaurant with a group of like-minded people. These gatherings are *NOT* hook-up spots. Rather, its just nice to be able to have lunch among those who all understand and appreciate your kink desires.
You say that you're interested in making friends. Then a group setting is the *BEST* way to do that. Its *safer* than meeting someone one-on-one, and its *more convenient* because you can potentially make *many* new friends as opposed to just one. Group gatherings give you a greater selection of people with whom to befriend.
Finally, I recommend that you do two things PBG -- first is to start listening more to the people here who are trying to *help* you, not hurt you.
Second, I recommend you put aside your fears, what you've *heard* and what you *think* you know, and open you mind to the experience and expertise of others here. L.E. is coordinating a one-shot event, at a restaurant, for people on this list to meet up and make friend face-to-face. He offered you a great option and you flatly dismissed it without even considering it. And subsequently you've railed on and on about how you're trying to protect your safety, when L.E. and others here are telling you that group gatherings are much safer.