A lot of people in this group fantasize about (or, through long practice achieve) nocturnal incontinence. That is to say, whilst asleep at night, they will urinate uncontrollably and without recollection into their bed/nappies/diapers/nighties or gorilla suits - whatever they happen to be wearing. They will then wake up in the morning to discover themselves to be wet.
Whilst I fully accept their rights to pursue these objectives and I’m happy to hear about their adventures – I’ve never really gotten it myself.
For me it’s the peeing, and then the being pee-soaked from both sensual and psychological perspectives that is the attraction and sleeping through it seems at best a shame and at worst, a logistical nightmare for bedding.
From a sensual standpoint, I think it actually feels very nice to wet your nappies/diapers/pants/bed. If you can put aside psychological conditioning, I suspect many would find that creeping, trickling warmth and gathering humid closeness around your crotch to be far from unpleasant. Then there’s being wet afterwards. For a while at least after wetting (longer if I’m in nappies/diapers) it feels warm, and close. Even a wet bed can feel like a warm bath (as long as you can stay warm).
There has to be more to it than that however as there don’t seem to be many of us who pour jugs of warm water into our laps after getting into bed which on the face of it, would deliver a nearly identical sensual experience with a lot less risk of ruined mattresses.
It has to be pee, not water. Therefore it’s not just a sensation, it’s a mind-fuck.
Reaching further into the dark sludge of my subconscious and trying to pull out lumps of clarity, I realize that it is the ACT of peeing and then knowing I HAVE peed that is at play. By wetting my bed/nappies/diapers/pajamas, I’m breaking the rules, I’m freed from a restriction and I’m doing something that feels nice but is not allowed. It’s forbidden fruit. I’m a naughty boy.
That freedom lasts longer than the 15 seconds or so it takes me to first wet myself. Once my bed is already wet or I’m in a nappy it seems that I can “turn off” continence and just relax in a warm, wet dribbling state.
Afterwards, tucked away under the blankets or inside my nappy/diaper, the evidence of my misdeeds cannot be seen. Out in public, a wet nappy or diaper under my clothes gives me the same thrill. Civilised on the outside, unallowably soaked on the inside I get away with my crime.
Maybe I’m just a DL who sometimes uses the bed as a giant diaper.
I’ve no desire however to become a full-time, involuntary bedwetter. Apart from being massively inconvenient, just waking up in wet nappies or a wet bed with no recollection of the anticipation/release and no recall of relaxing in the wetness afterwards robs me of at least some of those key elements of enjoyment and leaves me with washing. As long as I’m warm down there, I can’t even really tell I’m wet anyway so it’s not as though I’d wake up to enjoy it. The enjoyment for me is in doing it and then remembering what I did. I wake up and remember that I’m in a wet nappy – I don’t feel a wet nappy, just warm underwear.
Having said all that: I experimented with night wetting once all the way until I eventually peed myself in my sleep two or three times without choosing to. Just to see what it was like.
It was wet mainly: just wet.
ymmv (and I know that it does)
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