In Reply to: How to become a bedwetter - Article posted by Kara on August 16, 2008 at 18:03
You have me confused.
Why does the sexual component HAVE to be here? I thought the goal was to be a bedwetter.
I have been wetting my bed for about six years now, and the sex part of it has never been there, nor do I think it ever will be. I am very satisfied with having my accidents in bed, and just sleeping wet.
Now, you mention four hours, and an urgency to pee at bedtime. Perhaps it is different for others, but once I stop going to the bathroom, if I am truly dedicated to drinking more and more (I drink water), I can't last more than just a little over two hours. Knowing that, I start at that two hour point, with an empty bladder, and let the water and my body do the rest. The first time I tried this, I drank 4 liters of water in that two hours, had two major gushers (explained below) and then peed all night long - I think altogether like 8 times (not including a couple of times when I don't think I woke)!!
One part that I really have gotten to like more and more is a bit of holding. After I get into bed and lie down, I have noticed that my urgency (even if it was super strong before) is lessened, and even goes away completely. I have found I can even relax for a few minutes. But it does return, and with a vengence. At this point, I take on the notion that I do NOT want to wet my bed, but I make no effort to get out. I lay there, and tell myself that I don't really want to wet the bed, and I hold on. After a few minutes, I find I have to use my hand to hold it, and a short time after that, it gets a bit painful, but I hold on some more. I reach a point that I cannot keep myself from dribbling pee, even trying to hold it with my hand, and it is only at this point that I let go, allowing a major gusher of pee to pour out onto/into the bed. Unless you have held on that long, you can't know the relief!
Does anyone else do anything like that?
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