In Reply to: mother found diapers posted by jill on July 13, 2008 at 16:48
Jill,
I think my advice would be to say that you did not ask her to do your laundry, and that you are not going to discuss the matter further.
Be firm, and just change the subject if she brings it up again. It sounds as though she herself recognises that wetting can be sexual - otherwise the discussion would have been about possible medical problems.
I would recommend that you don't kill her, but you might want to send her home to cool off!
I think a lot of us can feel how upset you probably are - I was never caught, but there were a few near misses!