Posted by Fatboy on March 04, 2010 at 09:56 [24.218.56.254]
In Reply to: Level of acceptance from partner posted by Question on March 03, 2010 at 08:05
Okay, from what you've said, it sounds like she is doing some accommodating for you, but you're not as willing to accommodate her. Make no mistake, that she is willing to not only tolerate your interest but occasionally participate is, itself, a big step on her part. If she is asking for more sexual intercourse, I think you have to provide that. Its a reasonable request given how open she's been with you. This is a two way street. If you're not willing to meet her half-way, that's fair but you need to understand that this means ending the realtionship. Not trying to pressure her into meeting you all the way. And then you need to seek out relationships with people who already meet your sexual needs instead of hoping you magically find them.
The fact is, she IS participating with you right now. Maybe not as fully as you'd like, but far more than many would. And yet you don't seem to be willing to participate with her. That troubles me, but its really you're reaction that needs to be addressed there, not hers.
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