Posted by T.I. on June 14, 2008 at 02:55 [98.148.232.190]
In Reply to: This is emotional for me... out on a limb... posted by Liz on June 12, 2008 at 22:25
Well, not that you are rare, but that heart felt admonishments on this website are rare. I've got 3 things to say.
1. Always take this website at face value, a large percentage of people on this website (read: not all but alot) will either proclaim you as a impersonator of yourself, or insult you for no reason. Ignore those people. (you'll be ignoring alot of people)
2. Get comfortable with yourself. You should be the one person that loves yourself the most. I had a very hard time connecting with people in relationships until I realized that if they were there or not, I was still the same kick-ass awesome person that I am. People participate in our lives to make us grow, not make us change. If they're out to change you, then they're not out to get to know you.
3. Finally, this fetish, while maybe considered "Fringe"... is more widely practiced than you will ever know. People from this group come in all flavors. People that mix diapers and bondage, people like you who do it for comfort, people who go all out, and the closet freaks who only indulge once or twice a year. If you haven't figured it out just yet, there is a binge/purge cycle... Don't throw out expensive things you've bought just because you think this is wrong... put them in a box, and wait it out, you'll come back around eventually.
and finally, welcome to whatever the hell this is.
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